Hey girl, I see you. I see you surrounding yourself with amateur small time small town small fry people. I thought you were a rangatira but you keep acting like a taurekareka. A taurekareka to your parents and what they told you to do, a taurekareka to your children and what society says you must ‘sacrifice’ in order to ‘be a good parent’, a taurekareka to what the little minds of the little town you live in say that you can and can’t have, what THEY say YOU can and can’t do.
You are not supposed to be a slave.
You were supposed to be a rangatira.
The one and only rangatira of your own life.
You may think you’re queen of your castle, but take a look at that castle that you’re sitting in, and take a look at the people in your kingdom. REALLY?????! REALLY???? REALLY???!!! Is that the best that you can do? Is that all that you can muster?
I EXPECTED MORE OF YOU, MUCH MUCH MORE.
You of all people. You are smart, you have talents that other people do not, you can do things that other people can not. You could have done MANY THINGS, you could have gone BIG WITH YOUR LIFE, and then bigger and then bigger still. WHY DO YOU KEEP SETTLING FOR A MEDIOCRE AND UNCHALLENGING EXISTENCE?
Why do you keep settling for second or third best when YOU KNOW THAT YOU COULD DO A LOT BETTER?!
You do a disservice to yourself and your talents and gifts when you squander them on the wrong things, the wrong people, the wrong places and the wrong ideas.
Why THE FUCK do you keep getting yourself a J.O.B??? I thought you were an ARTIST! I thought you were supposed to be a PROFESSIONAL! Stop acting like a FUCKING AMATEUR!!! It is EMBARRASSING to witness. I EXPECTED SO MUCH MORE FROM YOU. And deep down inside yourself I think that most likely SO DID YOU!!! Think back to when you were little, IS THIS WHAT YOU DREAMED FOR YOURSELF? Are you living how you had intended when you were a kid, are you doing what you had thought you would do, when you were a kid? Are you rolling with the kind of awesome fun and inspiring people that you thought you would be rolling with, when you were a kid?
THE DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES CLUB - you weren’t supposed to be one of them! You are CAPABLE of much more!! Why THE FUCK do you keep hanging out with the DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES CLUB as though that is where you belong? As though that is all you can manage? WHERE IS YOUR FUCKING SPINE? WHERE IS YOUR BACKBONE?
WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO STOP CLINGING TO THE EDGES OF THE POOL AND JUMP IN THE FUCKING DEEP END? How do you ever expect to learn how to swim if you won’t let GO OF THE SIDE OF THE POOL. Stop letting fear and ‘what if I fail’ RULE YOUR LIFE! Take a risk, take a chance and BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! COMMIT TO YOUR OWN DREAMS AND PROJECTS! STOP THINKING THAT YOU NEED TO HAVE A ‘BOSS’ IN ORDER TO BE SAFE!! You are the boss of yourself and of your own life, start acting like it. You are not powerless. You are NOT without choices.
YOU HAVE TO GO ALL IN ON YOURSELF AND ON YOUR OWN DREAMS. YOU HAVE TO STOP LISTENING TO WHAT LOSERS TELL YOU. Seriously, unless someone is living a fucking fantastic life, doing epic shit that you aspire to do, then WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU LISTEN TO A BROKE ASS UNHAPPY WHINER about what to do with your life, what you can and can’t do, what the ‘rules’ are and their opinion on ‘how life works’.
WAKE THE FUCK UP and START STANDING ON YOUR OWN TWO FEET.
You have a brain don’t you? You have access to the internet don’t you? You are able to LEARN NEW SKILLS aren’t you? You live in a first world country don’t you? You have talents and gifts buried somewhere inside you DON’T YOU? When are you going to show some GRATITUDE and START FUCKING USING THEM? I see you constantly looking that gift horse in the mouth, sending all those blessings and miracles back to the universal dream factory from whence they came. Don’t you know that those gift horses are eventually going to stop coming if you continue to treat them like that? When are you going to learn to say THANK YOU?! When are you going to learn to SEIZE AN OPPORTUNITY or an inspiration or an idea as SOON AS YOU RECEIVE it and then to run with it with FAITH?!
Do you even know what the fuck FAITH is?? You NEED TO START LEARNING ABOUT, USING and LIVING from a place of EXTREME FAITH, if you ever want to dive into the deep end of your own life and STOP CLINGING TO THE EDGES OF THE POOL LIKE A LITTLE FUCKING BABY! Are you a baby? OR A YOU A FULL GROWN MOTHERFUCKING ADULT?? When are you going to start acting like it? When are you going to start having faith in yourself and your own ideas, in your gifts and talents? If you have been lucky enough to have been BLESSED with gifts and talents (which lets face it - we all have) then it is YOUR DUTY and OBLIGATION to use them and to STOP PLAYING SO SMALL. You were not meant to live such a small life.
YOU KNOW THIS.
DEEP DOWN when you stop fooling yourself, lying to yourself, and listening to the losers whom you surround yourself with - YOU ALREADY KNOW THIS! I am just reminding you of what you ALREADY INTUITIVELY KNOW! Start listening to your own intuition and then start acting on it. Give your intuition some room to breathe instead of smothering it with all the nonsense that you use to SHUT IT UP.
You could make a new choice today. You could stop fucking around today. You could choose to stop merely surviving and to start moving towards thriving, today. You could quit that soul sucking job today. You could enroll on that course that you ACTUALLY WANT to do, today. You could start that business TODAY. You could start seeking out better company and higher quality friends TODAY. You could take one step closer towards YOUR dream TODAY.
BUT YOU HAVE TO MAKE A CHOICE.
YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE.
YOU HAVE TO COMMIT.
YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE.
YOU HAVE TO HAVE FAITH.
YOU HAVE TO LET GO OF THE EDGE OF THE POOL AND START SWIMMING FOR YOUR LIFE TOWARDS YOUR REAL DREAMS AND WHAT YOU REALLY ACTUALLY WANT FOR YOURSELF. And DO NOT STOP swimming until you arrive on the island oasis of your dream life.
You can create anything you want. Yes you could. You have the same raw human resources of any other human that started off with nothing and then created SOMETHING for themselves and then their descendants. Don’t ever give me that ‘poor me’ shit again. More importantly don’t give YOURSELF that ‘poor me’ shit again.
YOU ALREADY HAVE EVERYTHING YOU NEED WITHIN YOU. YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES if only you would choose to believe it and ACT LIKE IT, every day going forward, forever.
Instead of thinking ‘poor me’ start thinking LUCKY ME! Lucky me I have two hands and a functioning brain. LUCKY me I can do things, I can try things, I can make things happen for myself.
LUCKY ME I can seek out opportunities and alternative options. LUCKY me I am a creative and resourceful SURVIVOR. LUCKY ME I have guts, courage and a backbone of my own. LUCKY me I have two feet to stand on. LUCKY ME I can overcome any challenges and setbacks that come my way. LUCKY ME I am resilient and TOUGH.
POOR ME? OR LUCKY ME? YOU CHOOSE.
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