WHAT YOU CAN DO TO STEP INTO YOUR DREAM LIFE FASTER!
1. DECLUTTER YOUR ENTIRE LIFE. Declutter your home and office, all the spaces you spend time in every day, including your car. ONLY surround yourself with stuff that you absolutely love from now. Get rid of all the rest, ESPECIALLY items that are associated with stink parts of your past, shitty people, EXES or stuff that you just want to move BEYOND now.
Get those rubbish bags out and dispose of rubbish/junk + donate everything else to your local op shop. It is likely that YOU JUST DON’T NEED ALL THAT STUFF and it is most likely energetically HOLDING YOU BACK. It is a fact that rich, happy and successful people generally as a rule, do not live or work in cluttered up messy environments.
If you want to MOVE FORWARD with your life and step into a DIFFERENT REALITY then you just need to get rid of all that physical shit, just trust me on that. This can be an extremely emotional process (it was for me) but I promise you that once you get through it, and get over it, you will feel so much clearer, lighter, freer and more easily able to charge forward into a brand new day. Absolutely GET RID OF YOUR TV if you have one, and your microwave if you still have one of those. You don’t need those in your life and you will be better off without them.
Read Marie Kondo’s ‘The life changing magic of tidying’. It helped me change my life and get to a point where I am now living out of suitcases with ONLY absolutely top quality beautiful stuff in my life that SPARKS JOY, stuff that I really love. Physical things and stuff can store energy and you want your energy to be light, clear and FREE FLOWING if you want to step into your dream life ASAP.
2. DISENGAGE with toxic people. Yes I do mean even toxic friends and family members. I don’t care if they are related, if they are bring you down consistently and constantly, JUST CUT THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE. You will be better off in the long run if you can develop the ability to do this act of self love for yourself. YOU WILL KNOW deep down if someone is toxic to you. They will make you question and doubt your own inner truth. They will try to drag you back down to their level, ESPECIALLY at critical times such as when you are trying to transform your life for the better or move from a negative space to a positive space. That is EXACTLY when toxic people who you thought had your best interests at heart, are likely to show their true colors. Be wary of this and STAY TRUE TO YOUR PATH. If they were meant for you they may come back to you in future, and if they weren’t meant for you, they will not.
Either way, it is going to be MUCH EASIER for you if you cut out ALL toxic people from your life and just disengage with them completely. Sometimes there is no reasoning with idiots, even if you love them. Loving someone is not an excuse to sabotage yourself by allowing someone else to sabotage you. This can be a difficult process, but it will be worth it for you in the end, when you are living your dream life and have started surrounding yourself with ONLY positive, supportive and uplifting energies.
It is common knowledge that we are the average of the 5 people that we hang out with the most in life. Take off the rose colored glasses and HAVE A LOOK at the 5 people that you are currently spending the most time with. Are they winners? Are they happy? Are they creatively fulfilled? Are they doing their true soul work in the world? Are they uplifting and supportive of you and your true dreams? are they supportive of themselves even? Are they creating their own dream life? Are they conscious about the choices they are making? Are they someone that you aspire to be like? Are they living a fantastic life? Are they someone that you even respect?
YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO KUINI.
3. Start carving out TIME and SPACE in your busy life to actually THINK about, DREAM and ENVISION, what your 'dream life' would even look like. What does the term ‘dream life’ even mean to you? What would you look like and be doing in your version of your dream life? What kind of friends and peers would you have? What effect would your work be having on the world? How would you feel on a day to day basis? What kind of foods would you eat? What kind of environment/country/house would you live in? What kind of school would you children attend? What kind of relationships would you have?
The first step in stepping into your dream life is actually IDENTIFYING WHAT YOUR DREAM LIFE IS. This requires you to actually put time, effort and consideration into pondering this. You need to be conscious about EXACTLY what you want to create for yourself and how you TRULY want to live.
You cannot create your dream life if you have never stopped to consider what that actually means to YOU personally. The more time you spend on CLARIFYING YOUR VISION FOR YOURSELF, the EASIER bringing this vision to life is going to be for you. I suggest writing and journalling on this very subject every day, every week, every month until you are ABSOLUTELY CLEAR with a BURNING DESIRE inside, to actually start taking steps to bring this DAZZLING vision into reality for yourself.
Pinterest is another great way to create VISION BOARDS on various aspects of your dream life. Instead of scrolling Facebook aimlessly looking for the answers to life, you could be consciously curating and adding powerfully inspiring images to your personal and private VISION BOARDS that will ASSIST you in GETTING VERY CLEAR on what your 'dream life' would be.
Some vision board suggestions are:
‘MY DREAM WARDROBE’
‘MY DREAM HOUSE’
‘MY DREAM BUSINESS/BRAND/JOB’
‘MY LOVE LIFESTYLE’
'THE NEXT NEXT LEVEL VERSION OF ME'
'MY BEST SELF'
I have used and continue to use pinterest for vision boards and manifesting on a daily basis. The more you do this, the more you will start to observe PATTERNS happening across your vision boards. I started to notice that HEAPS of the images I was pinning featured WATER (ocean or pool), featured LIGHT COLORED CLOTHING (i’ve largely worn black for approx 9 years due to my profession as a tattooer), featured a TRAVEL LIFESTYLE, and featured groups of happy women together.
Gaining clarity and insight into the PATTERNS that were emerging on my vision boards, helped me to know exactly what I needed to do, create, manifest, make happen etc in order to step into my own dream life. I have successfully manifested a SHITLOAD of aspects of my vision boards from the past two years, into my CURRENT DAY TO DAY REALITY that I NOW get to live.
It’s not some new age hippy shit, it is SCIENCE - the science of energetic vibration and alignment. The more you can energetically vibrate and align with the vision that you have for yourself, the easier and faster it becomes to step into it, BECOME it, EXPERIENCE it, and LIVE it.
Start there my darling and amazing things are bound to start happening for you. Keep going and don’t give up.
Dream life creation and manifestation is an ongoing lifetime process and you will never be ‘finished’.
Enjoy it, have fun and KNOW THAT YOU DESERVE IT!
I will write more on this in future.
With love xx